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Release that frustration wisely: have angry sex

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The majority of Hopkins students can be defined as intelligent, motivated and constantly stressed out. We stuff our schedules with academics, research, jobs, sports and extracurricular activities. By the end of each day, we trudge back to our rooms, crashing after our caffeine binges while annoyed with everyone and everything....

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Bing Bang

posted 11/20/06 @ 5:41 PM EST

This is terrible. Angry sex is possibly the worst idea I've heard. Its right up there with hate sex which is not far from rape. Besides, the inappropriateness of cutting off your partner while in a dissagreement by kissing them or touching them and trying to seduce them sends the wrong message.

Your article has good intentions, but I think is wrong. Angry sex is definitly for people who live in a perfect movie world, putting on a show for some mysterious watcher. Good in practice but not practicle at all.

Alana

posted 11/07/07 @ 11:43 PM EST

Originally posted by

Bing Bang

This is terrible. Angry sex is possibly the worst idea I've heard. Its right up there with hate sex which is not far from rape. Besides, the inappropriateness of cutting off your partner while in a dissagreement by kissing them or touching them and trying to seduce them sends the wrong message.

Your article has good intentions, but I think is wrong. Angry sex is definitly for people who live in a perfect movie world, putting on a show for some mysterious watcher. Good in practice but not practicle at all.



This person is obviously not getting any. Ever. If your partner and yourself are in the kind of relationship where this goes over well, it's very healthy and a perfectly reasonable way to end frustration without a FIST, which I can only ASSUME is what this person must be used to. That or the kind of passive-agressive nonsense that ENDS marriages.

no sex... so sad...

posted 1/15/08 @ 9:26 PM EST

Originally posted by

Bing Bang

This is terrible. Angry sex is possibly the worst idea I've heard. Its right up there with hate sex which is not far from rape. Besides, the inappropriateness of cutting off your partner while in a dissagreement by kissing them or touching them and trying to seduce them sends the wrong message.

Your article has good intentions, but I think is wrong. Angry sex is definitly for people who live in a perfect movie world, putting on a show for some mysterious watcher. Good in practice but not practicle at all.


There's nothing wrong with passion in a relationship. Anger and sexual desire are pretty damn similar, and sex is a major stress reliever. Alot of times there really is no logic to a fight, it's all about passion. Those relationships in which one or both partners seem to 'pick' fights are those without enough released passion. Usually, in a fight or argument, you don't worry too much about cutting your partner off or what's "appropriate". It's yelling and screaming and it really gets nowhere... it's pointless passion, wasted passion. Put that passion to good use and get that stress relieved, and possibly eleminate some future fights. And honestly, it can be much better solved when you've both cooled off, after hot steamy angry sex. Very few arguments are solved by taking polite turns listening to eachother's problems and complaints. If you and your significant other fight like that, then you're either both unpassionate pansies in fear of conflict, or you're both therapists. Either way, you probably shouldn't be together.

Cedrick Henderson

posted 1/19/08 @ 2:40 AM EST

Originally posted by

Bing Bang

This is terrible. Angry sex is possibly the worst idea I've heard. Its right up there with hate sex which is not far from rape. Besides, the inappropriateness of cutting off your partner while in a dissagreement by kissing them or touching them and trying to seduce them sends the wrong message.

Your article has good intentions, but I think is wrong. Angry sex is definitly for people who live in a perfect movie world, putting on a show for some mysterious watcher. Good in practice but not practicle at all.

I agree with this. Relationships are built on things like trust and communication, and even arguments can be healthy. Angry sex doesn't make all the problems go away. And I see people sabotage their own relationships just to satisfy their fetish for conflict.

So maybe angry sex is fun and cathartic, but it's not a replacement for getting your feelings and problems out in the open. And passion in the bedroom can't make up for all the passion it takes to make a long-term relationship work.

Killette

posted 4/02/08 @ 4:09 AM EST

I don't think you've ever experienced the intenisty of angry sex, or maybe your just prude.

Originally posted by

Bing Bang

This is terrible. Angry sex is possibly the worst idea I've heard. Its right up there with hate sex which is not far from rape. Besides, the inappropriateness of cutting off your partner while in a dissagreement by kissing them or touching them and trying to seduce them sends the wrong message.

Your article has good intentions, but I think is wrong. Angry sex is definitly for people who live in a perfect movie world, putting on a show for some mysterious watcher. Good in practice but not practicle at all.

Richard Deakins

posted 4/02/08 @ 5:39 AM EST

Different things work for different people. If your relationship has this kind of dynamic, it's completely appropriate, healthy, fun for both parties, and IT WORKS. Yes, it really does. Some relationships will not sustain this kind of activity but surely you can make that judgement for yourself? Do you honestly think somebody will read this article, toss aside everything they know about their relationship, their partner, and just rape them because the Internet told them to? Humans can make decisions for themselves, and if, as I say, you're the kind of couple that doesn't take offense at this (for me, it's almost like a game - a deeply erotic, fufilling one, I might add) then what the devil is the problem?

El Sordo

posted 3/27/09 @ 10:35 PM EST

Originally posted by

Bing Bang

This is terrible. Angry sex is possibly the worst idea I've heard. Its right up there with hate sex which is not far from rape. Besides, the inappropriateness of cutting off your partner while in a dissagreement by kissing them or touching them and trying to seduce them sends the wrong message.

Your article has good intentions, but I think is wrong. Angry sex is definitly for people who live in a perfect movie world, putting on a show for some mysterious watcher. Good in practice but not practicle at all.


you need to get laid, dear...

been burnt once, still love her

posted 1/13/08 @ 7:25 PM EST

i have actually done this...last night as a matter of fact. we had an argument about 2 weeks ago, and hadn't spoken since. we last night i went and bought her a nice suit, took her to dinner (well we actuality skipped dinner) went to a hotel...and started arguing about 5 min of being in the room, she was telling me something which i shall not place here, and i kissed he as hard as i could, and bit her lip, she got pissed and kissed me back....well, needless to say i need a new shirt, and she needed a new blouse, and both of us are in a bit of pain in places of unmentioned location of the human anatomy. we manged to talk out our issues by ..sex...painful, hard, unforgiving sex.

prissy

posted 7/06/08 @ 7:56 PM EST

I think this sounds like a great outlet for all that energy, why not use it wisely.

When I find a man who agrees with this I will be a happy woman...

BasePlug

posted 12/02/08 @ 12:31 AM EST

Originally posted by

prissy

I think this sounds like a great outlet for all that energy, why not use it wisely.

When I find a man who agrees with this I will be a happy woman...



Look no further my sweet, I am the sexual beast which you have yurned for.

But if you choose not to email me my advice to you as a man is that you should just be more direct. Walk up to a man in a bar and just say, "Hi handsome, do you want to have sex with me tonight?" and be nice to him. Most likely he'll only refuse this if he's celabite, gay, married, or if he has another woman lined up for that night.

I love it when women skip the games and courting bullshit.

BasePlug

posted 12/02/08 @ 12:42 AM EST

Originally posted by

prissy

I think this sounds like a great outlet for all that energy, why not use it wisely.

When I find a man who agrees with this I will be a happy woman...



Look no further my sweet, I am the sexual beast which you have yurned for.

But seriously, my advice as a man is that you just be more direct. Walk up to a guy in a bar and say, "Hi handsome, would you like to have sex with me tonight?" Most likely he'll only reject such an offer if he's married, already taken for the night, or homosexual. And you still have the rest of the bar to ask anyway.

I love it when women skip their high-schoolish bullshit and courting rituals.

cleverkid

posted 9/19/08 @ 4:50 PM EST

dude...dis sounds like fun lol. im gonna do it...but first i gotta lose my virginity lol

Johnny Doe

posted 1/08/09 @ 5:39 PM EST

Originally posted by

cleverkid

dude...dis sounds like fun lol. im gonna do it...but first i gotta lose my virginity lol


DUMBASS

mebbeman

posted 11/05/08 @ 5:54 PM EST

Angry sex can be a good idea, but it most be used only in exactly the right situation. If your partner is genuienly pissed off and you're just using it as a means of avoiding resolving the issue its not a great idea.
But when used appropriately - great fun!

dug hole

posted 1/17/09 @ 11:47 PM EST

Well, Angry sex is brutal -But then again the mayansz did it. The Chinese did it, And the way black on black crime is im pretty sure THEY did it. Along with robbery, Forced entry and maybe rape. But thats slim. Guess what . IM BLACk And Angry sex is The BESTTTTTT . ithink

sean

posted 2/12/09 @ 7:13 PM EST

if i don't have a girlfriend does angry pillow sex count? i loves me some pillow sex. but seriously though this it the bestest idea once it health and no one is harmed! no to find me a female... any takers? sit on me face and il guess your weight!

Biff LaRue

posted 3/25/09 @ 11:05 AM EST

I absolutely endorse angry sex, it works great. My friend and I are both very competitive and the struggle for dominant position is the most extraordinary struggle I can imagine but the best thing about it is no matter who wins, we both win.

Anon

posted 6/18/09 @ 2:38 AM EST

That's not a good idea. Maybe you should read this.
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1608/is_8_19/ai_105853418/
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